Kungani amadoda enesibindi ukusebenzisa amakhondomu?
Kuyinto eqinisiwe eqinisiwe ukuthi, ngaphezu kokusebenza kwabo ekuvimbeleni ukukhulelwa, ikhondomu iyesibili kuphela ukuziyeka uma kuziwa ekuvimbeleni ukutholakala kwezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi (STIs). Noma kunjalo, ngisho nokuvela kwegciwane lesandulela ngculazi nengculazi futhi, ngokungezelela, isidingo esandayo samadoda ukuba sithathe iqhaza elikhulu ekuvinjweni kwe-STI, cishe ingxenye yesibili yokukhulelwa ayilungiswanga.
Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwekhondomu akuseyona into ebalulekile kumadoda. Kungani?
Ukusetjenziswa kweKomitjhini ye-Negative Stigma
Kubonakala sengathi, naphezu kokusebenza kwayo, ikhondomu isabhekwa ngezindlela eziningi ezingalungile. Okokuqala, kukhona leso sikhonyane esidala mayelana namakhondomu anomthelela omubi ekuzijabuliseni komuntu siqu. Amanye amadoda achaza ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani ukusebenzisa ikhondomu ngokuthi "ukulala nogqoke."
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi amadoda amasha, angashadile abesaba kakhulu kunabesifazane ukuphakamisa ukusetshenziswa kwamakhondomu. Kubantu, lokhu ukungafuni akumele kwenziwe kuphela ngomqondo wokunciphisa injabulo yocansi, kodwa futhi nokuthambekela kokubuka amakhondomu ngokuyinhloko njengethuluzi lokukhulelwa. Kubonakala sengathi amadoda amaningi abona ukukhulelwa ngokweqile njengomthwalo wemfanelo kuphela wesifazane.
Okokugcina, amadoda angafuni ukubeka ama-brake ekushiseni komzuzwana ukuze asebenzise ikhondomu, noma ngisho nokuphakamisa ukusebenzisa eyodwa. Ukwesaba ngokubhubhisa okwamanje, abantu abaningi banamahloni ngokubeka amakhondomu phambi komlingani wesondo.
Isizathu Sokuba Kudingeka Sisebenze Kanzima ekunciphiseni le Stigma Elibi
Ukubaluleka kokusetshenziswa kwekhondomu ngokujwayelekile kuhle kakhulu. Sebenzisa ikhondomu ngendlela efanele futhi unciphise kakhulu izingozi zokukhulelwa okungenakulungiswa , kokuthola isifo socansi, noma ukudlulisela kwabanye.
Ngokuqinisekile, amakhondomu anganciphisa ukuzwela.
Futhi kungase kubonakale kunzima ukumisa phakathi kocansi ukugqoka ikhondomu. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, amakhondomu angakhuphula amandla okuhlala futhi, uma umlingani wakho ekhululekile ngoba usebenzisa ukuvikelwa, angathuthukisa injabulo. Futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ujobe ukuhlukunyezwa ekusebenziseni ikhondomu yakho, futhi, ukwenza kube yingxenye yokudlala kwakho kocansi. Okokugcina, akukho lutho oluxhomekile kunomuntu ozimisele ukwabelana ngomthwalo wokwenza ucansi luphephile.
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