Amakhondomu

Ukucwaninga kwamakhondomu abesilisa

Amakhondomu abesilisa abesilisa omncane, ngokuvamile owenziwe nge- ravini ye- latex , evumelana nomuntu oboshwe ngesikhathi sokulala. Zibhekwa njengeyindlela ephumelelayo yokuvimbela ukuvimbela ukuzalwa. Ukwengeza, ukusetshenziswa kwamakhondomu kuncipha ingozi yezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi (STDs).

Ngaphandle kwe- vasectomy , ikhondomu yamadoda yindlela kuphela etholakalayo yokulawulwa kokuzalwa eyenzelwe amadoda.

Amakhondomu abesilisa ayaziwa nangokuthi ama-rubbers, prophylactics, i-safes, ukuvikelwa kanye nama-jimmies.

Izinhlobo zamakhondomu

Ukuzama ukukhetha ikhondomu kungaba nakho okujabulisayo nokuthakazelisayo. Kodwa njengoba kunezinhlobo eziningi nezitayela zamakhondomoduna wesilisa, abanye abantu bathola inqubo yokukhetha kunzima. Ngakho-ke, ake siphule ezinye izinketho zekhondomu.

Okokuqala, akuzona zonke izikhondomu zesilisa ezenziwe okufanayo . Amakhondomu atholakalayo angenziwa kusuka:

• Konke Owake Wadingeka Ukuze Ukwazi Ngezikhondomu

• Ingabe Amakhondomu Ahlanganiswe Ukukhetha Okufanele?

• I-Latex
• I-polyurethane (ipulasitiki)
• I-membrane yemvelo (amawundlu)
• I-Polyisoprene (i- raberb ye- non-latex yemvelo)

Ngaphandle kwento abenziwe ngayo, amakhondomu abesilisa angaba:

• Amabala noma aqoshiwe
• Okungafani noma opaque
• Ukuthuthukiswa nge-lubricant yokuqinisa (njengeComs LifeStyles Turbo noma iCompy Double Ecstasy Condoms )
• Omile noma omswakama
• I-Ribbed, ihlanganisiwe, noma i-textured (njenge- Sir Richard's Pleasure Dots )
• I-lubricated-nge- spermicide noma ngaphandle (bheka ukubona ukuthi ikhondomu iqukethe i-nonoxynol-9 ngoba kunezixwayiso ezithile ze-FDA ezihlobene nokusetshenziswa okuvamile kwalesi sifo)
• Okuvuthayo noma okudliwayo
• Yiba "QuickStrips" ngakho bahlale begqoka kahle (I- Condens Sensis )

• Okuxubile noma okwenziwe injabulo
• Okuncane (njengeKomono Amantombazane KaKimono MicroThin neL. Condom Ultra Thin)
• Okungahlanjululwa
• Ukunakekelwa kwe-vegan
• Ukuhlanza noma okukhulu (njenge-Isexwayiso Gqoka amakhukhu we-Iron Grip Snugger Fit noma i- LifeStyles KYNG ikhondomu yamadoda)

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uluhlobo luni lomkhondomu wesilisa olikhethayo, kubalulekile ukufunda amalebula. Amanye amakhondomu amasha angahle ahloselwe ukukuvikela ekukhulelwe kanye / noma nge-STD.

Ukukhetha ikondomu

Wonke amakhondomu abesilisa (ngaphandle kwamakhondomu amancane) enza into efanayo-ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa nama-STD. Lokhu kuthiwa, kunezinye izinto ozizibuzeyo uma unquma ngezinhlobo zamakhondomu :

• Ingabe amakhondomu abesilisa abe yindlela yakho esemqoka yokulawulwa kokuzalwa kanye nokuvinjelwa kwe-STD?
• Yisiphi isilawuli sekhondomu oyidingayo?
• Uyaqonda ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani ikhondomu yabesilisa?
• Ingabe ukhetha ikhondomu efana nefomu noma evulekile? I-Thinner noma i-thicker? Ihlanganisiwe?

Izimpendulo zakho kule mibuzo zizosiza ukwehlisa isinqumo sakho mayelana nokuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwekhondomu yabesilisa oluzosetshenziswa.

Indlela Ikhondomu Esebenza Ngayo

Amakhondomu amantombazane asebenza njengesibambiso ngokuqoqa imbewu / isisu ngaphambi, ngesikhathi, nangemva kokuba owesilisa ejaculates (okungukuthi, "kuza").

Lokhu kungavimbela isidoda ukuba singaxhumani ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwesifazane nangenxa yokujoyina iqanda lomfazi. Amakhondomu nawo angavimbela izifo ezibangelwa isifo esithathelwanayo ngokobulili ukuba zingathinti isikhumba somlingani ongenalo igciwane.

Ukuthenga amakhondomu

Ungathenga amakhondomu ngaphandle kwemithi. Amakhondomu amakhondomu athengiswa kakhulu kuma-drugstores noma ezitolo ezinkulu nakwamashini athengisa kwezinye izindawo zokuphumula. Ungathenga amakhondomu ku-inthanethi noma nge-mail oda futhi ungakwazi ngisho nokuthola ikhondomu yamahhala emitholampilo yokuhlela umndeni noma izikhungo zezokwelapha zamanyuvesi.

Izindleko

Ikhondomu eyodwa ingadla u- $ 50 noma ngaphansi. Kwamanye amazwe athi, i-Medicaid izofaka izindleko zamakhondomu athengwe emtholampilo noma ehhovisi likadokotela. Kukhona ngisho nezindawo ezinganikeza ikhondomu mahhala.

Abanye abakhiqizi banezinhlelo zokubaluleka lapho ungathenga khona "ukubhaliswa kwekhondomu" -ngokuthi owithengayo, kancane kancane izindleko zekhondomu zibiza.

Okokugcina, amakhondomu akhethekile (afana nokwenzelwe ukuthuthukisa injabulo yezocansi) kanye ne-polyurethane, i-polyisoprene, ne-lambskin ikhondomu zivame ukubiza kakhulu kunezikhondomu zamadoda ezivamile ze-latex.

Izinzuzo

Amadoda nabesifazane bavame ukuthi banomzimba ocansini kangcono uma basebenzisa amakhondomu. Ezinye imibhangqwana ingase ihlanganise nokugqoka amakhondomu abesilisa njengengxenye ye-foreplay yabo.

Umbhangqwana uphinde ubike ukuthi kulula ukugxila ekujabuliseni kwabo ngokocansi uma ukukhathazeka kokukhulelwa okungahlosiwe kanye nezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi sekuphelile. Amanye amadoda angase alondoloze ukulungiswa kwawo isikhathi eside uma basebenzisa amakhondomu. Amakhondomu abesilisa nawo:

• Kulula futhi kulula ukuthola
• Akubizi
• Awudingi i-prescription
• Kungasetshenziswa nezinye izindlela zokulawula ukuzalwa
• Okulula
• Ilahlekile
• Usizo ekuvimbeleni ukukhulelwa kanye nezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi

Imiphumela emihle yezokwelapha

Ngaphandle kokuvimbela ukukhulelwa, ikhondomu yamadoda inganikeza izinzuzo ezengeziwe, kubandakanya:

• Ukuvimbela isisu ekuthinteni izicubu ezithweni zesifazane. Lokhu kunganciphisa amathuba okuthi umzimba wakhe uzothela ama-antibodies ngokumelene nesidoda-esinye sezimbangela zokungasebenzi.
• Ukusiza ekunciphiseni i- ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi ugcine izikhathi ezinde. Ngenxa yokuthi ikhondomu yamadoda iphoqa imithanjeni yangaphandle ye-penis, ingaba usizo kubantu abanobunzima bokugcina i-erection.

• Ingabe Usebenzisa Ikondomu Yakho Engalungile?

• Uma Ikhondomu Ihambisana, Yigqoke. Nakhu ukuthi ungathola kanjani ukulinganisa kwesokudla

Ukungalungi

Kukhona nokunye ukungalungi ekusetshenzisweni kwamakhondomu omuntu, njenge:

• Amanye amadoda nabesifazane banomuzwa wokuthi ikhondomu idonsa inzwa.
• Amadoda athile akakwazi ukugcina i-erection ngemuva kokugqoka ikhondomu.
• Injabulo ethile yezocansi ingase ilahleke lapho umdlalo wezocansi uphazanyiswa ukufaka ikhondomu.
• Ukuvuthwa okubangelwa amakhondomu kunganciphisa ukugqugquzelwa kwabesifazane-okungenza ubulili bujabulise noma bukhululekile. Ukusebenzisa amakhondomu akhonjiwe kungagwema le nkinga.
• Amanye amadoda aziqhenya ngokusebenzisa futhi / noma ukufaka amakhondomu.
• Ubulili angeke bujabulise kakhulu ngoba indoda kufanele ihoxise ipenisi ngokushesha ngemuva kokukhipha.
• Amakhondomu abesilisa angakhululekile ukugqoka. Ukuzama ngobukhulu bezinkhondomu ezahlukene nezinhlobo kungasiza ngalolu daba.
• Indoda ingase izwe ingcindezi yokugcina ukulungiswa ukuze kugcinwe ikhondomu.
• Owesifazane akakwazi ukuzwa uketshezi olufudumele lwesilwane engena emzimbeni wakhe (abanye besifazane bayakhathalela ngalokhu, abanye abenzanga).
• Amakhondomu awakwazi ukuphinda avuselelwe .
• Ukuhlelwa kwangaphambi kokudinga kuyadingeka ukuba kube namakondomu alungile ngokulindela ukulala ocansini.
• Amaphesenti angama-2 kuya kwabesifazane nabesilisa abhekene ne-allergen kuya kwekhondomu ye-latex. Uma kunjalo, lo mbhangqwana ungasebenzisa amakhondomu e-polyurethane, amakhondomu angewona i-latex, noma ama-condoms ama-lambkin.

Isitoreji

Amakhondomu kufanele agcinwe endaweni epholile, eyomile futhi aphathwe kahle. Akufanele bavezwe ukushisa, ukukhanya, umoya, noma ilanga isikhathi eside. Lokhu kusho ukuthi amakhondomu akufanele agcinwe egumbini legundane lemoto yakho noma athathe esikhwameni sakho noma esikhwameni sakho emuva (ngaphandle uma uhlela ukusebenzisa ikhondomu ngalolo suku). Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukungezwani okubangelwa ukuvula nokuvala isikhwama kanye nokuhamba kungabangela izimbobo ezincane ukuthuthukisa kukhondomu. Uma ikhondomu ibonakala ivuliwe, i-brittle, noma i-sticky, ingase ibe nomthelela wokuphuka. Ngakho-ke, yilahle futhi uthenge entsha.

Ukucabangela

Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ubukhulu bekhondomu bubalulekile. Ngenxa yalokhu, ungase ufune ukuthola ubukhulu bakho bepenisi , ngakho-ke ungakhetha ikhondomu eyokwazi ukulingana kakhulu ngokuphepha futhi ekhululekile.

Ukuhamba ngamasayizi omkhondomu kungaba yinkimbinkimbi ngoba abakhiqizi bekhondomu abahlukene banezindinganiso ezahlukene zokuhlukanisa amakhondomu abo ngesayizi . Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ikhondomu oyisebenzisayo ayikho enkulu noma encane kakhulu. Ezinye izinto okufanele wazi:

• Amakhondomu ahlukumezeka ngobudala.
• Uma igcinwe kahle, amakhondomu abesilisa azosebenza kuze kube yilapho usuku lokuphelelwa yisikhathi lwanyatheliswa ku-wrapper yekhondomu.
• Ungayikhombisi ikhondomu (usebenzisa amakondomu amabili wesilisa noma ikhondomu yabesilisa kanye nekhondomu yabesifazane ngesikhathi esisodwa).
• Amakhondomu afika ngobude obuhlukahlukene, ububanzi nobukhulu, ngakho-ke indoda kufanele izame izinhlobo ezahlukene zamakhondomu kanye nezitayela ukuthola ukuthi yikuphi okuhambisana kahle. Amaphakheji amaningi awabonisi usayizi.
• Izinto / amakhemikhali akho amakhondomu akho angathinta impilo yakho. Kungaba kuhle ukuthola ukuthi yini emakhondomu akho , kodwa ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kungaba nzima ngoba amaphakheji ekhondomu awabonisi kalula lolu lwazi.
• Sebenzisa kuphela i-lubricants esekelwe ngamanzi okuhloswe ukuthi isetshenziswe ngamakhondomu (afana ne- Wet Gelle , KY, Astroglide , njll) noma amakhemikhali asekelwe e-silicone . Noma yimaphi imikhiqizo esekelwe ngamafutha noma e-petroleum ingenza amakhondomu abesilisa abe esiphephile futhi aphumelele.

Ukuphumelela Ngokukhulelwa

Amakhondomu abesilisa angama-82% kuya ku-98% aphumelelayo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi, ngokusetshenziswa okujwayelekile , abangaba ngu-18 kwabangu-100 abesifazane abalingani babo abasebenzisa amakhondomu ngonyaka owodwa bazokhulelwa. Ngomsebenzi ophelele, ababili kuphela abazokhulelwa.

Ukuze kuphumelele kakhulu , amakhondomu kufanele agqoke ngaphambi kokuba i-penis ixhumane noma ingene emzimbeni. Ikhondomu yesilisa kufanele isuswe ngokucophelela ngokushesha ngemuva kokukhishwa kwegazi. Ukuzijabulisa akufanele kungene kunoma yikuphi ukuxhumana nesiswini njengoba ikhondomu isuswa.

Ukusebenza kwamakhondomoduna wesilisa kuncipha uma:

• Ikhondomu iphuka ngenxa yeziphambeko zokukhiqiza (okungajwayelekile) noma iphutha lomsebenzisi .
• Imifino iphuma emakhondomu ngesikhathi sokuhoxiswa.
• I-penis ihlangana nodokotela ngaphambi kokuba ikhondomu ivuliwe (ikhondomu ayifakwa ekuqaleni).
• Amakhondomu asetshenziswa ngesikhathi socansi ngaphansi kwamanzi .

Amakhondomu ahlanganisiwe ane-spermicide (i-sperm-agent ebulalayo) inikeza usizo olwengeziwe ekuvimbeleni ukukhulelwa. Ama-condoms angamadoda angasebenza nakakhulu uma ufaka u- spermicide owengeziwe kumfutho wokugcoba, ikakhulukazi uma kwenzeka ukhula oluthile luvela ekuvuleni ikhondomu.

Ukuvikelwa kwe-STD

Amakhondomu abesilisa angenye yezindlela zokulawula ukuzalwa kuphela ezingahlinzeka ukuvikelwa ekufakeni izifo zocansi. Bangasiza ukunciphisa ingozi yokuthola isivumelwano:

• I-Chlamydia
• I-gonorrhea
• I-Trichomoniasis
• I-Syphilis
• I-HIV
• I-hepatitis
• I-Chancroid
• Izifo Ezivuthayo Ze-pelvic (PID)

Amakhondomu angaphinde avikele ngokumelene ne-vaginitis ebangelwa i-trichomoniasis noma izinguquko ekulinganiseni kwe-pH yesisindo esingabangela imbongolo. Amakhondomu abesilisa abanikeza ukuvikeleka kwe-HPV / Genital Warts noma i-Herpes-uma indawo enesifo igcwele ikhondomu. Amakhondomu omuntu avikela izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi kubo bobabili abalingani ngesikhathi sezocansi zesandulela ngculazi nomlomo.

Ikhondomu kuphela ye-latex, amakhondomu angewona i-latex, kanye namakhondomu e-polyurethane angakwazi ukuvimbela ngempumelelo ukusabalala kwezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi. Amakhondomu akhiwe ngamagqabhezana emfuyo (ama-lambkin) angaba nama-pores amancane ukuthi izidalwa ezithathelwanayo zingadlula, yize noma isidoda singakwazi.

Izwi elivela

Ukusebenzisa amakhondomu kungase kungabi lula njengoba uqala ukucabanga. Ngezinye izikhathi, kubonakala sengathi ikhondomu yamadoda ithola i-rap embi. Amanye amadoda angase akhononde ngokuwasebenzisa. Kodwa, amakhondomu angaba mnandi, angaba mnandi, futhi angakwazi ukukhanya ebumnyameni!

Ngisho noma amakhondomu abesilisa asetshenziswe iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-12 000, kuningi lwemininingwane engalungile okwamanje. Okubalulekile ukuthi ikhondomu iyindlela yokulawula ukuzalwa kuphela enikeza kokubili ukukhulelwa kanye nokuvikelwa kwe-STD. Kulula ukusebenzisa futhi ezingabizi ukuthenga.

Ungathola futhi ubuciko ngamakhondomu wabesilisa futhi uthole izindlela ze-sexy zokuzifaka ekuthandeni kwakho uthando. Khumbula nje, uma ufuna ikhondomu yakho yesilisa iphumelele kakhulu, udinga ukugqoka eyodwa ngokulingana okuphelele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ikhondomu yakho yesilisa ikhululekile kakhulu, cishe uzoyisebenzisa njalo uma ucansi-okwandisa ukusebenza kwakho ikhondomu nakakhulu!

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