Indlela Yokuphendula Izizathu Zamadoda Zokungafuni Ukugqoka Ikondomu

Ngizwe zonke izinhlobo zezizathu ezenza amadoda angafuni ukugqoka amakhondomu . Kodwa, ngokungawasebenzisi, ukuphepha kwakho kusengozini. Ukusebenzisa ikhondomu njalo uma ucansi unikeza ukuvikeleka okungcono kokubamba i-STD, kubandakanya i-HIV. Kunconywa ukuthi usebenzise ikhondomu ngisho noma usePilisi (noma enye indlela yesigqila noma ukukhulelwa kwe-hormonal ). Uma umuntu ethi "mkhulu kakhulu" ukuba angene emakhondomu, vula phezulu, faka izandla zakho ndawonye (njengokuthi ushaya), gxilisa ikhondomu phezu kwezandla zakho, bese usakaza phakathi kwamasentimitha angu-12 ububanzi - buza uma ekhulu kunaleyo!

Nazi ezinye izizathu abantu abanikezayo nezimpendulo ongayisebenzisa:

1. Uma ethi: "Lonakalisa isimo sengqondo."

   Indlela yokuphendula: "Ukuba nobulili obungaphephile kungikhipha emoyeni ."

2. Uma isizathu sakhe siwukuthi: "Ikhondomu iyangiphuca injabulo yami yobulili."

   Indlela yokuphendula: "Angikwazi ukujabulela ucansi ngaphandle kokuthi sivikelekile ."

3. Uma ethi: "Uma ungithanda ngempela, kufanele ungethembe."

   Indlela yokuphendula: "Kungenxa yokuthi ngiyakuthanda ukuthi ngifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi sobabili sivikelekile."

4. Uma ekhononda: "Angikwazi ukuzwa lutho uma ngigqoke ikhondomu."

   Indlela yokuphendula: "Amakhondomu amaningi anezici ezengeziwe zokwenza ubulili bube ngcono, futhi ukuthi bobabili ningakwazi ukuphumula ngokuziqaphela ukuthi nizivikelekile ngokulwa nokukhulelwa kwe-STD nokukhulelwa okungahlosiwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amadoda angathola injabulo enkulu ngamakhondomu athile (njengekhondomu ye-ribbed) kunokungabikho nhlobo. "

   • Indlela Yokukhetha Ikondomu
   • Ngaphambi Kokuthenga Amakhondomu

5. Uma ethi: "Amakhondomu awasebenzi ngempela; iningi lalo liye lahluleka."

   Indlela yokuphendula: "Uma sisisebenzisa ngendlela efanele, amakhondomu asebenza kahle ngo-98%. Ngezinye izikhathi aphule uma ungagqoke ikhondomu elungile. Hayi, ake sibone isayizi lakho lekhondomu bese ukhetha okuphelele kuwe!"

   • Ishadi Lomthamo Wekhondomu

1. Uma isizathu sakhe siwukuthi: "Ukugqoka ikhondomu akukhathazeki."

   Indlela yokuphendula: Phakamisa umkhiqizo ohlukile noma usayizi . Ezinye izinhlobo ezahlukene zekhondomu (ngaphandle kwekhondomu ye- latex ) ukuzama:

   • I-Polyurethane Condoms
   • I-SKYN - Amakhondomu Angekho Latex
   • Amakhondomu weThrojani Double Ecstasy
   • I-KYNG Condom Extra Extra
   • Amakhondomu we-LifeStyles Turbo
   • Amakhondomu aKimono MicroThin nge-Aqua Lube

   ---> Noma, uma uzizwa unesibindi, ungabuya, "Yebo, futhi ukhulelwe izinyanga ezingu-9 bese ubeletha."

1. Uma ethi: "Ungangitsheli ukuthi empeleni ucabanga ukuthi uzobamba okuthile kimi."

   Indlela yokuphendula: "Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi ngeke ngisayi, kodwa kungcono ukuphepheka kunokudabuka."

2. Uma ukuphikisana kwakhe kuwukuthi: "Kodwa usepilisi."

   Indlela yokuphendula: " Iphilisi ngeke isisindise kwi-STD ukuthi singakwazi ngisho ukuthi sinakho - ikhondomu izosinika lokho kuvikelwa. Futhi, ngale ndlela, sinokuvikelwa kabili!"

3. Uma ethi: "Kodwa senze ucansi ngaphandle kwekhondomu ngaphambili."

   Indlela yokuphendula: "Lokho kwakuyisinqumo esibi, futhi angifuni ukukwenza futhi. Ngangikhathazekile inyanga yonke ukuthi ngingakhulelwa . Sasinenhlanhla, futhi angiyikuyidonsa futhi. "

4. Uma isizathu sakhe sithi: "Angazi ukuthi ngisebenzisa kanjani ikhondomu ngendlela efanele."

   Indlela yokuphendula: "Ngizokwenza kuwe."

   Ungazama futhi ukusebenzisa i- Sensis Condoms . La makondomu ane-QuikStrips - amathebhu akhethekile akwenza ngakho konke ikhondomu ye-Sensis iyahamba ngokushesha, kulula futhi kufane nayo kufanele. Ukwenza izinto zibe ziningi, zama ukubeka la makondomu kumlingani wakho. Ngisho ebumnyameni, akukho ukuqhuma njengoba kulula ukutshela ukuthi iyiphi indlela efanele yokuvula ikhondomu.

   Ukuze umqinise ngisho nangaphezulu (futhi wengeze injabulo encane), sebenzisa umlomo wakho ukubeka ikhondomu! Vele uqiniseke ukuthi ukuqhuba ukwenza lokhu kuqala.

   • Indlela Yokubeka Isikhondomu Ngomlomo Wakho

   Ungase futhi umfundise njalo indlela efanele yokusebenzisa ikhondomu - yenza kube "okujabulisayo" kokufunda okuhlangenwe nakho.

1. Cabangela ezinye zalezi zinsiza (noma ubone ukuthi abanye babhalisele iziphakamiso):

   • Yiziphi Amakhondomu Aphezulu Noma Amakhondomu Omubi?
   • Yisho: Yiziphi izinhlobo zakho zekhondomu oyizintandokazi?

2. Woza uzilungiselele ... ulethe amakhondomu akho! Ungakwazi ukuzithenga kalula endaweni yokuhlela umndeni esitolo sakho sendawo yokudla noma esitolo sezinto ezilula / izidakamizwa noma inthanethi (uma ufisa ukuqonda).

Amathiphu:

1. Ungesabi ukucela umlingani wakho ukuba asebenzise ikhondomu ngoba ucabanga ukuthi ngeke akuthembele. Uma kunjalo, kungase kusho ukuthi awumethembi ngokwanele ukumcela ukuthi asebenzise ikhondomu.

   Ukuthembeka kuwe, ukukhuluma ngokulawulwa kokubeletha kungaba nzima, kodwa kubalulekile (uma ubuhlobo obunzima) ukwenza lezi zinqumo ndawonye. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi awukwazi ukukhuluma nomlingani wakho mayelana nokukhulelwa , izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi, nemigomo yezocansi, kufanele ubuyekeze uma usulungele ubuhlobo bobulili nomuntu.

1. Khumbula, kunezizathu eziningi zokusebenzisa ikhondomu. Funda zonke izindlela ikhondomu ingazivikela zombili, ngakho ungamkhumbuza (futhi wena) ukuthi kungani kufanele usebenzise ikhondomu njalo uma ulala naye. Ungavumeli izizathu zomngani wakho zikuvimbele ukuba uzivikele.

2. Funda lezi zindlela zokuthi ungaphendula kanjani kumlingani wakho. Uma kuzokukwenza uzwe uzilungele ngokwengeziwe, uzivuselele; ke-ke, ungakulungela ukumncintisana uma ekunika ithuba lokungafuni ukugqoka ikhondomu.

3. Khumbuza ukuthi ukucela othile ukuthi asebenzise imibukiso yekhondomu ukuthi uyazihlonipha wena futhi, ngakho-ke wenqaba ukuya ocansini nomuntu ongakuhloniphi noma ngokwanele ukusebenzisa ukuvikelwa.

   ---> Yenza kucace - akukho ikhondomu, ayikho ucansi!

Okudingayo:

• Ukuqiniseka
• Ukuzimisela
• Ukuzihlonipha
• Mhlawumbe iphakethe lakho lamakhondomu