Esinye sezibonakaliso ze- autism yizinto ezikhethayo isimiso esinqunyiwe . Abantu abaningi kule mboni banokuphila okungavamile okungavamile. Badla ukudla okufanayo ngesikhathi esisodwa nsuku zonke, balala ngesikhathi esifanayo ubusuku bonke, bagqoke izingubo ezifanayo ehlobo noma ebusika, futhi bahlanganyele emisebenzini efanayo, ngendlela efanayo, ngokuphindaphindiwe. Izindlela zokunciphisa ukukhathazeka, okungaba yinkinga enkulu kubantu abaningi kule ndawo.
Nakuba kungekho okungahambi kahle ngokuphila okuhlelekile nokubikezelayo, kungaba nzima ukugcina lapho ngisho into encane kunazo zonke. Kwenzekani uma isiqandisini sehla? Ibhasi liphuzile? I-shoelace yakho idlula? Nakuba lezi "nhlekelele" ezincane zingase zibe yindlala emgwaqweni kumuntu ongenhliziyo, bangase babe nomuzwa okhulu kakhulu kumuntu one-autism.
Kungaba futhi inselele kakhulu ukuhlala nomntwana (noma omdala) ophelele mayelana nemigomo yakhe nezintandokazi zakhe. Okuyiqiniso ukuthi isidingo sokuphila - nesifo sezinzwa zokuhlukahluka - uthole indlela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siya kwimicimbi yempilo efana nemishado nemingcwabo, ukubhekana nezenzakalo ezinkulu zezulu, noma ukujabulela ukuvakasha kokuphuma kwedolobheni, kuvame ukudingwa ukugoba, ukuguquguquka, nokuhlala ukuze kuhambisane nesimo.
Ngokuvamile, amakilasi kanye nezinhlelo zezingane kanye nabantu abadala abane-autism bahlelwe ukuze benze ukuphila kufaneleke futhi kulungiswe ngangokunokwenzeka.
Amashejuli okubukwayo athunyelwe futhi alandelwe kumzuzu. Ukulindela kuhlangene, futhi ama-novel okuhlangenwe nakho agcinwa okungenani. Kuyafana nasemakhaya amaningi, ahlelwe ukuqinisekiswa. Lena yindlela enhle yokugcina imizwelo nge-keel-kodwa-ke, uma "inhlekelele" ishaywa (njengoba isenza njalo ngesimo sezinto zonke kusukela ekuqothulweni kokuqala ukuya kumgogodla), abantu abane-autism babe nezinsiza ezimbalwa zokuphatha imizwelo yabo noma izidingo zesimo esisha.
Ngenxa yalokho, othisha nabazali bavame ukumangala ukubona ingane encane ephansi ezolile, ihamba isuka kumuntu oyisimungulu ukuze ihlasele ngalokho okubonakala sengathi kuyishintsha kancane.
Amathiphu Okusiza Abantwana Nge-Autism Ukwakha Ukuthobeka Nokunciphisa
Ngenxa yokuthi ukuguquguquka nokuqina kuyimakhono ebalulekile yokuphila okuphelele (noma ngisho nokuphila okungaphandle kwendawo yokubeka isikhungo), kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa nokusebenzisa lawo makghono - ngisho noma ukwenza kanjalo kunzima noma kungakhululekile. Ngalokho engqondweni, nanka amanye amathiphu wokwakha ukuguquguquka nokuqina ngaphandle kokudala ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo wena noma othandekayo wakho nge-autism.
- Sebenzisa ngamakhono azokusiza ukuba uhlale uphile futhi usekela lapho ubhekene nokukhathazeka ngokwe-autistic noma ukuqubuka. Iqiniso liwukuthi abantu abaningi abane-autism bakhetha ukwenza izinto ngendlela yabo - futhi, lapho bebhekene nesidingo sokuguquguquka, bangase bathukuthele. Uma ucasukile kanye nabo, isimo sizoqhubeka siqhubekele ukuqhuma kokubili - futhi cishe sizophela ngokubuyela esimisweni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uqhuba ukuzindla, ukuphefumula okujulile, noma ukubuka okulula, kungcono kuwe ukugcina isineke sakho nesimo sengqondo esihle.
- Hlanganisa ukuguquguquka kwemvelo ezindaweni ezizimele noma ezamukelekayo. Njengoba nje ungenakugqugquzela ingane ukuba iqhube ibhayisikili yabo yokuqala phakathi komgwaqo omatasa, akufanele usebenzise ukuguquguquka nokuqina phakathi nendawo. Ikhaya, noma ikhaya lomngane oqondayo, yindawo enhle okufanele uqalise ngayo. Ngaphandle kwezwe, uzobhekana nezinqumo zabanye abangenakuqonda okuncane okwenzayo noma ukuthi kungani okwenzayo.
- Yenza isibonelo futhi usebenzise izimpendulo ezifanele ukudumazeka noma ukukhathazeka. Yiqiniso, uyazi ukuthi wonke umuntu ubhekene nokudumazeka futhi kufanele akhothamele iqiniso - kepha ingane yakho ene-autism kungenzeka ingazi. Kuwusizo ukulingisa ukudumazeka kwangempela noma okulinganayo kanye nezimpendulo ezifanele. Isibonelo - "Oh Hhayi! Ngivele ngisemthonjeni wami ozithandayo! Ngidumala kakhulu! Ngizokwenzenjani? Hm. Mhlawumbe ngizodla isinkwa sokudla kwasekuseni esikhundleni salokho. kuzoba kuhle. Kamuva, ngizothola okusanhlamvu okuningi esitolo. " [Ukusikisela: izindaba zomphakathi zingasiza futhi ukulungiselela izingane nge-autism ngezimo ezinzima.]
- Qala kancane ngokuhlinzeka ngokukhetha okucacile, okulula kalula uma kudingeka ukuguquguquka. Ukucabangisisa okubalulekile kunzima kuwo wonke umuntu. Uma usebenza ngokuvumelana nezimo, ngakho-ke, kuyasiza ukuqala ngezinketho ezithile ongakhetha kuzo. Isibonelo: "Ngiyaxolisa kakhulu ukuthi asinayo izinja ezishisayo owazilindele ukuba udle. Kumele udumale. Ungathanda yini izinkukhu noma ama-Hamburg?"
- Khetha izimo ezilinganiselwe, ezisezingeni eliphansi ukuze usebenzise ukuguquguquka kwemvelo. Izinguquko ezinkulu zinzima kakhulu kithi sonke. Ngakho khetha izimo zokuzijwayela ezingaba yingozi kakhulu kokubili wena nomntanakho nge-autism (ukhetha isidlo esisha sokudla esidlweni sakusihlwa, ugqoke ihembe elihlukile, njll). Qinisekisa ukuthi unesikhathi esanele namandla ukuze uphumelele inqubo ndawonye - futhi, njengoba kwenzeka ngezinye izikhathi, ukwehluleka bese uzama futhi.
- Thola abanye ukusekela ukuguquguquka nokuqina. Ezweni langempela, umzali akasoze azungeze ukusekela nokusiza ukuguquguquka nokuqina - kanti abanye bavame ukufakwa kulo mxube. Uma kunokwenzeka, faka umlingani wakho, izingane zakini ezinganeni zakho , ababelapha, kanye nabanye ezimweni zangempela noma ezenziwe ngendlela evamile. Yini abayifunayo noma abayidingayo? Kungenziwa kanjani izinqumo ezithinta ukukhathazeka kwabanye?
- Lungiselela izinketho uma uzudinga. Ngisho nangokulungiselela nokuzikhandla, ushintsho olungalindelekile lungacasula okungcono kakhulu kithi. Yilungiselele lokho kungenzeka noma kunini uma unakho. Isibonelo, ungakholelwa ukuthi ingane yakho ye-autistic ilungele ukuzama ukudla okusha noma ukulala ngemva kwesikhathi esincane - kodwa izici ezivela ekukhatheni kuya ekukhunjweni kwenhliziyo kuya ekuhlanganiseni okulula zingangena endleleni. Uma lokho kwenzeka (futhi kuzoba), yenza uhlelo B olutholakalayo njengokuthi "sizodla ukukhipha!"