Ingabe unogogo nomkhulu, umzali, umalume noma umngane onesifo se-Alzheimer ? Uma kunjalo, ungase ubone ukuthi ube okhohlwa ngokwengeziwe, enenkinga enkulu yokuthola amagama afanele ukukutshela okuthile, noma ezinye zezimpawu zokucabanga ze-Alzheimer's . Kodwa-ke, kuthiwani lapho othandekayo wakho eqala ukusho noma enze izinto ezingezona izinto ezinhle kangaka?
Lapho I-Alzheimer Ithinta Okungaphezu Kokuqaphela
Ngezinye izikhathi, ukuwohloka komqondo kungabangela abantu ukuthi bakhulume futhi benze izinto ababengeke benze ngaphambili.
Nakuba abanye abantu abane-Alzheimer noma uhlobo oluthile lokudemeka kwengqondo behlala bemnandi kuzo zonke izigaba zesifo, abanye bahlangabezana nezimpawu ezingaba yinselele kulabo abazungezile njenge- paranoia , i- hoarding , i- wandering , ukukhathazeka, intukuthelo nokuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi.
Yilezi zimpawu ezingase zibe nzima nakakhulu amalungu omndeni wothando ukubuka. Bangase babe nesineke futhi babe nomusa kumuntu onomqondo owohloka komqondo, futhi bazizwe njengelungelo lokumnakekela. Noma kunjalo, abathandekayo babo bangase baphenduke ngokungaqondakali ngokuphawula nokumangalela.
Izibonelo zalawo mazwana a-Not-So-Nice:
- "Awusoze wangivakashela."
- " Udadewabo uthatha imali yami."
- "Akangakhathaleli ukuthi ngihlala ekhaya usuku lonke."
- "Ukudla okulethe phezu kokunambitheka okubi."
- " Ubheka kakhulu kulawo mabhulukwe ."
- " Ngiyazi ukukhohlisa kukagogo kimi ."
- "Akumangalisi ukuthi uSally akanalo nabangane. Udinga ukuthola ama-brace akhe kulawo mazinyo."
Ngakho-ke, yini okufanele uyenze lapho othandekayo wakho ekhuluma izinto ezinjengalezi? Uyiphatha kanjani? Kufanele uthini?
Iziphakamiso Zokubhekana Nezinkinga
Yeka ukuphawula.
Ngiyazi, kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuyivumela ukuba ihambe futhi inganiki impendulo efanele, kodwa ingenye yezindlela ezingcono zokuphendula. Phikisana futhi kungenza wonke umuntu ahleleke . Sebenzisa i-logic emnene futhi ingase ibuye. Ukungazinaki kungaba impendulo enhle ngenxa yesimo sakho segazi kanye nengcindezi yegazi, uma nje ukwazi ukuthatha umoya ojulile nesinyathelo emuva, kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo okwesikhashana.
Manje, sicabanga lapha ukuthi lena akuyona indlela ejwayelekile yokukhuluma ngayo umuntu, kodwa kunalokho ukuthi lesi sifo sithinta ukuthi bahumusha kanjani umhlaba obazungezile.
Cabanga ngomthombo.
Ngalokho, angisho ukuthi kufanele ususe konke okushiwo nguGogo ngoba unesifo sengqondo somqondo . Lokho engikushoyo ukuthi uma ukuziphatha kwakhe namagama akuyona into evamile, cabanga ukuthi lesi sifo, kunokuba ugogo, unesibopho samagama nokuziphatha okungalungile. Khumbuza ukuthi isifo se-Alzheimer singathinta ubuntu ngoba sithinta isakhiwo somzimba wengqondo.
Sebenzisa ukuphazamiseka.
Esikhundleni sokulwa nokukhishwa kwelimi olubukhali, zama ukuqondisa ingxoxo ngokuphazanyiswa. "Mkhulu, ungathanda yini ukuba nenkukhu noma isobho lokudla isidlo sakusihlwa namhlanje? Ngizoya esitolo ngizibuze ukuthi yini ezwakala kahle kuwe." Noma ... "Ugogo, uzwile ukuthi uSara uphume umnyango olandelayo?" Noma, uma udinga ukuphuma ekamelweni okwesikhashana, ungazama, "Awu, ungikhumbuze ukuthi ngidinga ukuhamba ngibheke izingubo zokugeza." Kungenzeka umsebenzi, kungenzeka, kodwa ufanele uzame.
Mqinisekise.
Kungenzeka ukuthi udinga nje ukuzwa ukuthi wena (noma umyeni wakhe) uyamnakekela futhi umthande naphezu kwezenzo zakhe noma amazwi akhe. Ngezinye izikhathi abantu bavivinya abanye ngokucindezela imikhawulo futhi badinga ukwazi ukuthi ngisho noma kunzima, bazobe bengathandwa.
Phendula ngokufushane bese uvumela ukuhamba.
Uma kukuphawula okulimazayo, kungase kudingeke uphendule ngesitatimende esifushane nje ngenxa yempilo yakho yengqondo bese uqhubeka. Zama into enjengokuthi, "Mkhulu, mkhulu, lokho okulimaza imizwa yami ngoba angisoze ngakwenza lokho. Ake sixoxe ngenye into."
Kungabe kuyiqiniso?
Uma umama enza izinsolo eziphindaphindiwe noma ezinokwethenjelwa ngabanye abamlimaza noma aba ngemali yakhe, qaphela ukuxoshwa kwakho kwezimangalo zakhe. I-paranoia kanye nokukhohliswa ngokuvamile kuvame ukubonakaliswa komqondo wokudangala, kodwa ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuthi awuzinaki inkinga yangempela njengokuhlukunyezwa komdala .