Ukuze uphendule umbuzo othi kungani usebenzisa ukukhulelwa, kufanele siqale ukuqonda injongo yokulawulwa kokubeletha . Nakuba abantu bangase bakhethe ukusebenzisa ukukhulelwa kwemithi ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Inhloso yokulawulwa kokuzalwa ihlala isilingana. Ukwelashwa kukuvumela ukuba uvikele ukukhulelwa. Ukusetshenziswa kokuvimbela ukukhulelwa kuyakusiza ukunquma ukuthi zingaki izingane ongafuna ukuzenza kanye nokuzinikela kokukhulelwa kwakho.
Njengoba izindlela eziningi zokulawula ukubeletha zenzelwa abesifazane (ngaphandle kwezikhondomu kanye ne- vasectomy ), kuvamile kakhulu ukuthi abesifazane basebenzise ukukhulelwa kwemithi ngokusekelwe lapho bekhona empilweni yabo.
E-United States, cishe amaphesenti angaba ngu-50 kuzo zonke ukukhulelwa azihlelwe . Kulezi zokukhulelwa ezingalindelekile, cishe amaphesenti angu-42 aqeda ukukhipha isisu . Kulinganiselwa ukuthi ingxenye eyodwa kwezintathu zamantombazane aseMelika izokhipha isisu ngesikhathi sinezineminyaka engu-45 ubudala.
Abesifazane abangasebenzisi noma yikuphi ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa kanye nalabo abenza ucansi ngonyaka owodwa banamathuba angu-85% okukhulelwa ngesikhathi esithile kulowo nyaka. Izinguquko ezifana nobudala nobukhulu besondo zingathinta le nombolo.
Kodwa sinenhlanhla yokuphila ngosuku nosuku lapho kunezinketho eziningi zokulawula ukubeletha ezitholakalayo. Lezi zikhetho zijwayele ukuqoqwa ngaphansi kwezigaba ezilandelayo:
- Izindlela Zokwemvelo Zokukhulelwa
- Izinketho ezingaphezu kwe-Counter
- Ukulawulwa Kokuzalwa Kwesilisa
- Izinqubo Zokuqapha Okuhlala Phakade
Ngakho-ke Kungani Kufanele Usebenzise Inzalo?
Ukusetshenziswa kokubeletha kunganciphisa amathuba akho okukhulelwa. Ezinye izinhlobo zokulawula ukubeletha zinganciphisa ingozi yakho yokuthola isifo socansi .
Abantu bakhetha ukusebenzisa ukukhulelwa kwemithi ngezizathu eziningi. Ukukhetha indlela yokulawula ukuzalwa okulungile kuwe isinqumo somuntu siqu futhi kufanele ube nolwazi.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi kufanele wenze ucwaningo lwakho bese uqhathanisa izinketho zakho zokulawula ukubeletha ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukusebenzisa ukukhulelwa kwemithi. Uma ukhetha indlela okhululekile ngayo, cishe uzoyisebenzisa.
Izizathu Abantu Abanikeza Ngokusebenzisa Ukukhulelwa:
Asikho isizathu "sokunene" sokusebenzisa ukukhulelwa kwemithi. Ngisho noma inhloso yokulawulwa kokubeletha ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa, abesifazane abaningi bakhetha ukusebenzisa ukukhulelwa kwemithi ngenxa yezinzuzo ezithile zezempilo . Isibonelo, ezinye izindlela zokulawula ukuzalwa kwe-hormonal zingasiza ukulawula isikhathi sakho , ukunciphisa induna , kanye / noma ubuhlungu obuhlobene ne-endometriosis . Lokho okushiwo, ezinye izizathu zokusebenzisa ukubeletha zihlanganisa:
- Kungenzeka ukuthi unqume ukuthi awufuni ukuba nezingane noma ungabathanda ... nje manje.
- Ufuna ukuba nokulawula okwengeziwe impilo yakho.
- Ungakhetha ukusebenzisa ukukhulelwa kwezingane ukuze usize isikhala isikhathi sokuzalwa kwezingane zakho.
- Ngeke ube nomlingani ozinzile ukuze usize ekuzalaneni kwengane.
- Unomuzwa wokuthi, ngalesi sikhathi empilweni yakho, awukwazi ukuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo yezimali yokuba nomntwana.
- Kungenzeka ube nomuzwa wokuthi umndeni wakho usuphelile, ngakho ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuthi awukhulelwa futhi.
- Awuzizwa ulungele ukuba umzali noma uzizwe ukuthi usemncane kakhulu.
- Ufuna ukugxila ekunakekeleni izingane osenayo kakade.
- Ngezizathu ezihlobene nempilo, kungenzeka ukuthi akuphephile ukuba ube nomntwana.
Okunye Ngenhloso Yokulawulwa Kokuzalwa kanye Nendima Eyidlala Ekuphileni Kwakho
Cabanga okwesikhashana mayelana nokuphila kwakho. Uma inhloso yokulawulwa kokubeletha ukuvimbela ukuthi ungakhulelwa, ukusetshenziswa kokuvimbela ukubeletha kunomthelela omkhulu. Empeleni, ukusebenzisa isisu sokuvimbela ukukhulelwa kungavumela abesifazane:
- Ukuba nomsebenzi ngokukwazi ukuthola umsebenzi noma ukugcina owodwa.
- Ukusekela ngokwezimali ngokwabo kanye / noma umndeni wabo.
- Ukuhlala esikoleni kanye / noma ukuqeda imfundo yabo.
- Ukuzinakekela ngokwabo kanye / noma umndeni wabo.
- Ukuze ube nokuzinza nokulawula ngaphezulu izimpilo zabo (ngokulinda isikhathi esihle sokukhulelwa).
Sonke singabantu ngabanye, futhi sinesidingo sethu esiyingqayizivele. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi ukuba nosana njengamanje kungangena endleleni yemigomo yakho noma into ongakulungeli, khona-ke ukusetshenziswa kokukhulelwa kungase kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Kuyinto evamile kakhulu ukuthi abesifazane basebenzise ukukhulelwa kwemithi, ngakho-ke bangakwazi ukuyeka izingane zibe khona kuze kube yilapho izimpilo zabo zizinzile, zisungulwe futhi zivikelekile ngokwezezimali.
Ikhwalithi yobuhlobo bakho nomlingani wakho (noma ukungabi nomlingani onokwethenjelwa) nakho kungathinta isinqumo sakho sokusebenzisa ukukhulelwa kwemithi. Ungakhetha indlela eyodwa yokulawula ukubeletha phezu kolunye kuye ngokuthi uphi ekuphileni kwakho. Isibonelo, ungase ufune indlela ephumelela kakhulu uma ungafuni ngempela ukukhulelwa. Abantu basebenzisa ukukhulelwa ngokweqile, izizathu ngezizathu-ezicatshangelwe ngenhloso yokulawulwa kokuzalwa ikakhulukazi empilweni yakho kanye nezidingo zakho zobulili, zokuziphatha / zenkolo , zokuzala, nezomnotho .
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